Most of the couples say that it is their life, and they are capable enough to choose the perfect life partner for them. The commonest reason, they give, is that they can adjust more easily with one, whom they are in love with, than with a stranger. They say they have trust and good understanding between them, which never let them have any confusion or suspicion.
Parents have their own ideas. They say they are experienced enough about the life; they know what's good or bad for their children. In most of the parents' views, there is nothing like love; it's just only attraction, which decays after a certain period of time. They present very strong perception that they can think nothing bad of their children; after all they are parents.
You may find all the qualities of a perfect partner whom you love, but it is not necessary that this perfection will remain, when that one will be your spouse. Even sometimes, your perfect love may not want to marry in entire life. When you are in love, you both don't have so much responsibility as after marriage, so having same expectations after marriage will not be fair.
Parents have their own ideas. They say they are experienced enough about the life; they know what's good or bad for their children. In most of the parents' views, there is nothing like love; it's just only attraction, which decays after a certain period of time. They present very strong perception that they can think nothing bad of their children; after all they are parents.
You may find all the qualities of a perfect partner whom you love, but it is not necessary that this perfection will remain, when that one will be your spouse. Even sometimes, your perfect love may not want to marry in entire life. When you are in love, you both don't have so much responsibility as after marriage, so having same expectations after marriage will not be fair.
